They Both Die at the End by Adam Silvera // A phone call that can change your life

333852291On September 5, a little after midnight, Death-Cast calls Mateo Torrez and Rufus Emeterio to give them some bad news: They’re going to die today. Mateo and Rufus are total strangers, but, for different reasons, they’re both looking to make a new friend on their End Day. The good news: There’s an app for that. It’s called the Last Friend, and through it, Rufus and Mateo are about to meet up for one last great adventure and to live a lifetime in a single day.

Young Adult / Contemporary / 384 pages

They Both Die at the End is an interesting book that makes you think. Note that I listened to the audiobook version and did not read the physical book.

They Both Die at the End takes place in an unique world: In this hypothetical near-future world, an organization called Death Cast has data on who dies within the next 24 hours, and will contact these people (called “Deckers”) by phone. Because of this, there are also other businesses that are set up to cater to Deckers, such as the Last Friend app, which pairs Deckers up with other Deckers, or with non-Deckers, so that they will have someone to spend their last moments with before they die. There is also the Make A Moment company, which simulates thrilling experiences, like sky-diving, and there are bars and clubs where Deckers go to party it out for one more night. And because people get advanced notice before they die, this also makes for some interesting experiences: you can watch your own grave being dug, or you can attend your own funeral among friends and family. Even though They Both Die at the End is classified as a contemporary novel, some aspects of this novel strikes me as being science fiction (in a good way.)


Mateo and Rufus both won my heart from page one. Mateo is a sweet and kind boy who loves to read and play the piano. However, he is afraid to go outside and face the world, and he enrols in online courses to be able to stay inside the house. Rufus is the exact opposite: he is surrounded by a close-knit group of friends and he is not afraid to get into trouble. In the beginning of the novel, Rufus is beating up another guy for getting in between him and his girlfriend. As Mateo and Rufus get to know each other through the Last Friend app, they both have something to teach each other: Mateo learns to take risks, and Rufus learns to be kind.

Though most of the chapters are told through either Mateo or Rufus’s points of views, the story occasionally shifts very briefly into points of views of minor characters, like Zoe and Delilah (other Deckers who are called by Death Cast), or Andrew and Victor (employees of Death Cast), or Mateo and Rufus’s friends. These chapters add some interesting insights to the story: Like, how does a friend feel when he/she knows that you’re going to die in a day? Or, how does it feel to work at a company who notifies people of their deaths? Or, does a celebrity have any regrets when they know they are about to die? On the other hand, there are so few paragraphs devoted to each supporting character, that I don’t feel connected to any of them, nor am I interested in how they think. I keep on wanting to speed through these sections and continue reading about Rufus and Mateo.


As to be expected, this premise leaves some food for thought: What would you do if you know that you had less than a day to live? Would you want to know that you have less than a day to live? These are all important and worthwhile questions, and we see how different characters approach this: Mateo decides that he wants to take more risks, doing things that he would be scared to do before, including seeking a Last Friend. On the other hand, Delilah chooses to deny the fact of her death completely. While I appreciate that the book talks about the theme of death without hesitation, there are times when I wonder if it is too repetitive and not subtle enough.Β 

The writing is great, but… it’s pretty depressing.Β There are books out there about depression or grief that somehow packs in some pockets of humour (I don’t know how the authors do it), but this one does not joke around. Because of this, the book is a bit of a heavy read. It was harder for me to get through compared to some of Adam Silvera’s other books, like History is All You Left Me.

The audiobook is good. I have no qualms about it.


The Bottom Line:

They Both Die at the End is an interesting read for days when you are feeling philosophical.




Have you read this book, and what did you think about it? If not, will you be reading this book? Would you want Death Cast to exist in our world and call us when we are about to die in the next 24 hours?

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22 responses to “They Both Die at the End by Adam Silvera // A phone call that can change your life”

  1. Nice review and interesting questions! I don’t think I’ll read this one, would be too heavy for me right now. And I don’t know of I’d like to know!

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    1. Yes this book can be a bit depressing and you’d have to be in a certain mood to read it haha. Thanks for dropping by πŸ™‚

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      1. It’s always a pleasure! I am a “moody” kind of reader. Btw second episode of Ex Libris in english will be up later today, hope you like it!

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      2. I absolutely agree that we should read whatever we are in the mood for πŸ™‚ reading is more fun that way. Yes I will check out your video! I don’t go on YouTube too often so I appreciate the heads up πŸ™‚

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  2. Great review, Sophie! I’m really glad to hear you enjoyed this book so much. I really wan to read it, but it sounds like such a heavy read, with these kind of topics, that I’m kind of waiting for the right time….I think otherwise I would have a hard time reading it all. I do love the whole idea of sci-fi and contemporary mixed in this book, though πŸ™‚

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    1. Hi Marie! Yes this is a heavier read, and I agree that you’d have to be in a certain mood to read this kind of book. I actually liked History is All You Left Me better haha (that one was just as emotional but for some reason I found it easier to get through!)

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      1. Well… I think whenever I’m ready for Adam Silvera’s books again, I’ll start with History πŸ™‚

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      2. Hope you will like it! I think I’ll take a break from Adam Silvera for now, but More Happy Than Not is next on my list!

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      3. Ohhh, well I’ll wait to hear your thoughts about that one eagerly. But take your tiime, ahah πŸ™‚ Silvera seems to be one of these authors you have to read…well…one book at a time, and take long breaks in-between, because…emotions ahah. πŸ™‚

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      4. Haha yes! I think I read two Adam silvera books one after another and that was a bit much! Will let you know how I like More Happy when I get to it πŸ™‚

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  3. Great review! I’ve been wanting to read this for a while now but I just haven’t got around to it yet. I tend to really enjoy books that make think about deep topics so I think I’d enjoy this one!

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    1. Thank you Kristy! Hope you will enjoy this book if you are going to read it πŸ™‚


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    Cait @ Paper Fury

    Oh I did really love this one! I didn’t like the excerpts from random people though/?? Like I just wanted Mateo and Rufus. 😭 I TOTALLY agree it’s very dark/depressing and that ending aufhafidsohg. I also definitely think it’s not totally contemporary, because it has to be like magical realism or something right?!? Anyway I DID love it but also β€οΈπŸ’”

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    1. Glad that I’m not the only one who feel that way about the other characters haha! Yeah the ending is unfortunate- I kept hoping that they’d be able to defy death (though I knew it probably wouldn’t happen!) it is a good book but a sad one :’)
      Thanks for dropping by, Cait!


  5. Ah yes I get why this would be heavy going and how this could be not subtle (just from the synopsis) It does sound like something I’d want to check out though and the mcs sound so great! Awesome review!

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    1. Thank you! Yes the MCs are my favourite part of this book. Hope you will like this one if you are going to read it πŸ™‚


  6. Oh I’m sorry to hear you didn’t fully enjoy this one, Sophie! 😦 I won this at a giveaway and was skeptical that I might not like it – exactly because it would be so depressing. But I was hoping it would be one of those optimistic books where the subject of death is downplayed and granted a more positive outlook… So much for that!
    I’ll still give it a go, I guess, but will probably not be finishing it. I just don’t feel like I can stomach this type of story.
    Wonderful review, nonetheless! ❀

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    1. Hi Sophie! I think I might not have been in the right mood for this one- it’s not the most lighthearted of books and it does take some time to digest. Nevertheless there are plenty of people who love this book, so you should still give it a go if you feel like it πŸ™‚

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      1. Oh yeah, the reading mood thing… I get that way too often and it makes me so mad. I just want to enjoy my books T_T Why can’t I??
        It’s a very troublesome thing for a bookworm. So I can sympathize. Let’s hope it doesn’t happen too often…
        I’ll give it a go sometime, definitely πŸ™‚


      2. Yeah, unfortunately it is a troublesome thing when we are not in the mood to read a certain book! I think it’s probably better to try to go along with our moods rather than against it :’)

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      3. Couldn’t agree more! πŸ™‚

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